Harassment Cease and Desist Letter

A harassment cease and desist letter is a written demand that tells someone to stop unwanted contact or activity toward you. You describe what happened, say what you want to end, and give a date to respond. Use our free template to answer a few questions, then sign the finished document, and send it with proof of delivery.

Last Updated: October 2026. This guide is reviewed and updated regularly to reflect current law. If you notice an error or outdated information, please contact us.

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What Is a Harassment Cease and Desist Letter?

A harassment cease and desist letter is a document issued by the victim to the harassing party stating that legal action will be taken against them if they do not stop their offending acts or continue to harass the victim. A cease and desist letter is issued to a party that is in violation of the law.

Harassment happens when one person intentionally takes unwanted or uninvited actions to cause distress or alarm to another. The letter may be sent to any individual or business entity that is causing harassment.

It is a written letter that can also be issued when a person is suffering from harassment caused by the actions of another party, including:

  • personal attacks
  • comments
  • false remarks

This template is one way to protect yourself from the person causing the harassment. It can help you respond in different situations, including harassment at work and on social media.

Through this cease and desist letter template, the sender should formally request the offending party to stop the harassing behavior. If the offender does not respond to the letter and continues to harass the sender, they may seek stronger remedies like filing a civil suit.

The court may decide to issue a cease and desist order against the offender and the same shall be legally binding and enforceable against offender. While dealing with the issue of damages, the court may rely upon the evidence provided by the parties. In this case, a cease and desist letter can be a crucial piece of evidence.

When to Use the Letter

A cease and desist letter can be issued to a party as a final warning before filing a lawsuit. It is an effective way of dealing with harassment cases without involving the court. Some cases in which a cease and desist letter can be used are listed below:

Employment-Related Harassment

Harassment in the workplace is common and affects the life of many people. As per the United States Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC), over 7,500 sexual harassment claims were filed with the EEOC in FY 2018. A cease and desist letter can be issued if a person has suffered from harassment at the workplace. If the harassment is taking place within a company, business, or organization, the letter should be sent to the person causing the harassment and to the manager as well.

For Debt Collectors

The Fair Debt Collection Practices Act requires debt collectors to stop contacting the debtor on a formal request made by them. However, the same order must be made in writing. The collectors are required by law to stop harassing the debtor. In such cases, the debtor can pursue legal action if the collector continues to contact them.

For Online or Social Media Harassment

According to a Pew Research Center survey, roughly 40% of adults in the United States have personally experienced online trolling.

If a person has suffered online harassment on a social media website, for instance trolling, intimidating tactics or comments, or stalking, they can send a cease and desist letter to the inbox of the harasser and also notify the social networking company about the harasser’s illegal behavior.

Other Forms of Harassment

Other and more serious forms of harassment may include:

  • infringement of intellectual property rights (trademark, copyright, patents, or design)
  • property boundary encroachment
  • parking space encroachment
  • trespass
  • invasion of privacy

What to Include in a Harassment Cease and Desist Letter

The following information should be included in cease and desist letters for harassment. Keep the tone calm and factual, and state your main request near the top so the recipient understands what you want to end.

Details of the Parties

The cease and desist letter should include the relevant details of the parties including their full names and addresses. Check each spelling against an ID or a recent bill.

Description of the Incidents

The cease and desist letter should tell the other party about the harassment they caused. This may include:

  • false accusations or statements made by the recipient regarding the sender’s character
  • inappropriate phone calls
  • any other form of harassment

It should also include where and when each incident occurred. Be specific about the date, the place and what was said or done. The document should further specify the harm caused to the sender, including the physical, monetary, mental, or emotional trauma.

Sender’s Warning

The cease and desist letter should issue a warning to the recipient to stop harassing the sender, else legal repercussions might follow. The sender may file a civil action through a lawyer against the recipient if he or she fails to respond or act upon the letter. The sender may take legal action by filing a defamation suit through a law firm. An attorney can provide legal advice on all possible remedies available to the victim.

Deadline

Finally, it should provide a deadline or a fixed date to the recipient by which the sender’s demands should be complied with. This will serve as a final notice to the recipient. If the sender does not receive a response from the recipient by this time, he or she may initiate the above-mentioned legal action against the recipient.

Delivery

The letter should be sent by certified mail with a return receipt. This way, the sender will have evidence that the letter was received by the recipient.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

  • Leaving out dates, places or names, which makes the incidents hard to follow.
  • Using angry or exaggerated wording instead of clear, factual details.
  • Forgetting to keep a signed copy and the proof of delivery.
  • Sending the document before checking every detail.
Save screenshots, voicemails, saved messages and a dated list of each incident before you send the letter. Keep them with your signed copy.

How to Fill Out the Harassment Cease and Desist Letter

FormsPal’s easy to use and understand harassment cease and desist template can be filled out by following these simple steps. Before you start, have the contact details of both people ready, along with a short list of the incidents and their dates.

  1. Mention the details of the parties. At the top of the document, write the sender’s name in front of “from” and the recipient’s name in front of “to.” Enter the date on which the letter will be sent. Select the mode of delivery by ticking the applicable boxes.
  2. Describe the unwanted behavior. In the blank lines provided in the document, describe what the recipient did. Also say what type of harm it caused you.
  3. Specify the damages. After describing the harassing behavior, select the type of damages that you might claim through a lawyer.
  4. Specify the response time. In the blank space provided in the last paragraph on the first page of the document, write the number of days within which the offender should respond to your letter and stop the harassing behavior.
  5. Review the final notice. This part of the document should provide a deadline for the recipient to meet the demands. This is the final notice given to the recipient before the sender may file a civil suit against them.
  6. Add the sender’s name and signature. At the end of the document, write the sender’s full name and address, then add your signature.

Harassment Cease and Desist Letter Sample

Here is a completed sample of the template. Use it to see how the parts fit together, then replace the sample details with your own. Describe only what actually happened.

From: Ms. Jenna Goldberg

[Street Address]

[City][State][Zip]

Date: June 20, 2022

By: ☐ Certified Mail ☐ Email ☐ Other

To: Mr. John Phillip

[Street Address]

[City][State][Zip]

RE: CEASE AND DESIST FOR HARASSMENT

Dear Mr. Phillip,

This letter serves as a formal notice to you to immediately cease and desist from engaging in the following unwanted, unwelcome, and uninvited behavior(s):

  • Inappropriate phone calls and text messages being sent by you from June 13, 2021 on my WhatsApp, Facebook, and email.
  • Inappropriate physical gestures made by you from June 15, 2021 at the workplace.
  • Inappropriate comments made by you on my Instagram handle.

The harassment(s) not only annoys, but also threatens or intimidates me, and it has become unbearable. Accordingly, I am prepared to file a civil lawsuit against you, seeking:

  • a restraining order or injunction,
  • monetary compensation for losses and damages.
  • other: Attorney’s fee for legal advice

However, I will allow you time to make amends for your wrongdoing. You now have 7 (seven) days to acknowledge receipt of this letter and agree to stop all forms of harassment toward me.

This is my final notice to you before I take further steps against you. It is in your best interest to give your utmost attention to this matter.

Sincerely,

Ms. Jenna Goldberg

Frequently Asked Questions

Who do I send the letter to?

Send it to the person causing the harassment. If the harassment happens at work, also send a copy to the manager. Check the mailing details first, so the document reaches the right person.

How do I show that the recipient received the letter?

Send it by certified mail with a return receipt, and keep the receipt with your copy. If you also send it by email, save the sent message.

What do I gather before I start?

Gather the contact details of both people, the dates and places of each incident, and any messages, screenshots or call records that show what happened.

What do I do if the behavior continues after the deadline?

Write down each new incident with its date and keep your proof. Then talk with an attorney about your options.

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General information, not legal or tax advice.

Jennifer M. Settles
Jennifer M. Settles
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With over 25 years of experience as a business and transactional attorney, Jennifer has mastered the craft of closing highly successful deals for her clients. Through her wide-ranging expertise in commercial contracts, real estate transactions, M&A and corporate law, Jennifer secures results that are second-to-none.
Published: Apr 9, 2022