Use FormsPal to open and complete the form online, then print or download a finished PDF. The application has three main sections. Work through each one carefully and print legibly in black or blue ink.
Step 1: Applicant Information
Enter your full legal name, current mailing address, and your relationship to the deceased service member. Check the box that describes your relationship: widow, widower, mother, father, stepfather, mother through adoption, father through adoption, or son/daughter.
Step 2: Deceased Service Member Information
Provide the service member's full name, Social Security number or military service number, branch of service, grade or rank, and date and place of death. This section also shows the branch-specific mailing addresses for submission. Double-check the name and service number against official records to avoid delays.
Step 3: Sign and Submit
Sign and date the form as the applicant. Your signature certifies that the information is accurate and that you are an eligible next of kin. No notarization is required. Mail the completed form to the appropriate branch address from Step 2.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long does processing take? The reviewing branch typically mails the Gold Star Lapel Button within 6 to 8 weeks of receiving a complete application.
Do I need supporting documents? No documents are required with the initial submission, but the processing office may request proof of the service member's death certificate or your relationship if questions arise.
Can multiple family members receive the button? Yes. Each eligible family member (widow, parent, child, sibling) has a separate right to the button and may submit an individual application.
Related military forms: DD Form 93 (Record of Emergency Data), DD Form 149 (Correction of Military Record), Next of Kin Form, and Military Funeral Form.