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Or, if you prefer, download the BDSM checklist PDF to your device and begin completing it there, then save or print it later.
1. Fill In the General Information
In the General Information section, check the boxes that describe you best right now. This section includes your preferred role (domination or submission), experience level, sexual orientation, and relationship preference.
Answer based on how you actually feel, not how you felt years ago or how you think you should feel.
2. Clothing Preferences
The form also asks about clothing preferences in the scene (Leather, Lace, Gothic, etc.), so mark what you want. If you choose Other, attach details on a separate sheet.
3. Pay Attention to Medical Conditions or Limitations
If the answer in this section is yes, you’re asked to explain the details on a separate sheet. This part covers things like injuries, chronic pain, mobility issues, mental health considerations, medications, or anything that could affect safety.
4. Work Through the Activity List
The activity list makes up most of the form, and all categories deserve time.
This BDSM check list covers many objects, body parts, and situations connected to intimacy. Go line by line. For each entry, note Yes or No, then pick one interest option that reflects your real intent, not what you feel pushed to explore.
You’ll see items related to bondage, cages, rope, sense-focused play, exhibitionism, and voyeurism. All activities appear in alphabetical order. That’s all you need for a thoughtful conversation you can revisit and discuss later.
Pay special attention to limits:
• Limit - for firm boundaries,
• Maybe - when conditions matter,
• Curious - if you want more information,
• OK - when you’re comfortable,
• Do It - for strong interest.
Important: checking more than one box in a column confuses the meaning later.
5. Save and Revisit When Needed
Comfort levels change. Revisit the form after new experiences or as trust grows, and update it whenever something no longer feels accurate.
You can think of this BDSM chart as a simple map for participating with more ease. If you’re a dom or take another role, it helps to wait when something feels exceeded, communicate early, capture what matters, and speak up so nothing gets lost between partners.
